Has your boy ever asked you to talk dirty to him in bed? Did their request send you into a moment of panic wondering how you would get the words out of your mouth? Knowing how to talk dirty to a guy is not something that should make you run to hide under the covers in fear and anxiety.
There are just a few tips to learn and you are on your way to being a dirty talking queen and you will have your hot guy with a newfound desire.
The first tip to remember is that guys are very visual. It only takes a short image to appear in a man’s head and you are primed and ready to go. When talking dirty, try to have the words accompany the visualization. This not only turns him on with your words, but also with the image you create in his head.
Direct his attention to your body as you say, “It makes me so horny when you look at my …” or touch him and ask him, “Does it feel good in here?” You will probably be so excited that you can hardly get an answer. Change things. Have fun. Your guy will love provocative and suggestive talk more than you can imagine.
Another tip to remember when learning to talk dirty is to keep things direct. Men don’t always understand subtle things. It is best if you tell it exactly what you want and how you want it done. Men just don’t seem to be able to figure out what you want with subtle suggestions or body language. Not only will this let your guy know what turns you on without any doubt, but the frankness of your words will also be a source of an erotic twist for him.
And lastly, remember to play with your boy’s ego. We all like to be congratulated. Men love to feel manly and sexually capable. Keep your compliments real, but be generous in your praise for any of your efforts and sexual attributes that you particularly enjoy. Say: “You feel so big” or “I love the way you kiss me … with your …”. Your boy will eat the compliments and, at the same time, love the new dirty talking slut. you have become.
Learning to talk dirty with a guy can be a fun new adventure for both you and your partner. Let yourself go and enjoy. I can guarantee that your boy will thank you.