A woman’s prowess is put to the test when it comes time to keep her man. Making a man want to stay forever is not about manipulation; If you follow this path, your relationship is doomed to end. But if you want to gently persuade your man that there is no better woman, then there are ways to keep him tied up (without him knowing!).
Learn to please
If you want to control your man, start by pleasing him. This doesn’t mean giving in to all his desires, just learning to give him the things he deserves, like a hot meal at the end of the day, words of praise, and being loving with him.
Teach him to look like a model
Sure, this might be the hype of the year, but men generally have bad taste and if you let them choose their wardrobe, they are headed for disaster. Gently install it so that he chooses the red tie instead of the vomit color he loves.
Be influential
Every woman has the God-given potential to gently influence any man to do good. For example, the world around you might say that you look like an idiot or a nerd, but if the woman in your life thinks you look like a stud, then you are a stud! If everything else says he can’t do it and the woman is the wind under his wings, then he can create miracles!
Respect it
Men crave respect, so never yell at him or hurt him physically – these are the most degrading things any woman could do to her man. Speak fondly of your boy and never let anyone look down on him.
When arguments arise, and they definitely will, they will learn to be a classy woman and will hold back any harsh comments.
Him free set
Unknown to them, men want to be controlled but somehow they don’t want to feel or see what is being done to them. You have to be subtle if you ever want to have power over your guy. Never become the clingy girlfriend or wife. Say “have fun” when you go out with your friends.
Play the role of the always busy woman
Tired of having to wait for your guy to call you? Then you can reverse the scenario by playing busy for a couple of weeks. Once he feels that you are no longer scolding him for a call, he will surely start to worry; after which, he will be the one to chase you!
Make him feel like he’s in charge
The men want to know that they are the captain of the ship, so there is no use stealing his role. If you don’t always agree with his decisions, you can sweetly convince him to do it your way, once he agrees, make it look like you just followed his idea or decision.