Why is it that just when we think everything is going well in our relationship, the world starts to crumble beneath us? That happens to many women. You are in love with a fantastic man, you have visions of wedding bells dancing in your head and he suddenly breaks up with you. Nothing can be as devastating as that. When it happens to you, all you really want is to get it back. There are a number of tips on how to get your man back that will help rekindle the love between the two of you. It is important to know what to do and what to avoid doing in an emotional moment like this.
One of the best tips for getting your man back is also one of the most surprising. Naturally, his inner instinct will tell him to call or email you in an effort to win it back. We think we have to talk about everything with our boy to come to a happy resolution. Men don’t see it that way at all. When they go through a breakup, even one that they started, they need some space. His ex-boyfriend may have already told you that he needs some time to himself. Give it to him.
Instead of trying to convince him that the two of you are meant for each other, back off. Stop all contact for a few weeks. He is not expecting this. He is going to surprise him and that is exactly what you want to happen. Doing this gives you a couple of different benefits. First, he shows him that you respect his need to be apart, and he also accomplishes something even more important. He gives her the opportunity to miss you. You need that to happen if you want him back. Once he contacts you again, and he will, take it slow. Don’t start talking about getting back together right away. If you hold back a bit, he will make him love you even more.