There are five common conflicts between husband and wife, let’s see them:

1. Money matters.

In general, it has been a common conflict between couples, how to manage finances, how to spend and how not to spend, what is the priority to buy, how much to spend, how to get out of debt.

2. In the laws.

The relationship with parents, in-laws and other relatives becomes very difficult after marriage. A couple’s closeness to their parents sometimes becomes an issue, especially if the couple is still financially helping or obligated to support their parents and brothers/sisters.

3. The home, housework, mortgages and other household nuisances.

We have this belief that it is the duty of a “good” wife to maintain cleanliness and order in the house. Household chores become an issue of who she will help or when to help, especially if both partners are working. Small daily decisions about how to run the house turn into a big discussion.

4.Children.

There are many decisions involving children, which school to enroll in, which group of friends to go with, the discipline you imposed, the curfew, the age you can date and a lot of minor issues regarding children. .

5.Romance

Over the years, he found that “once marital happiness” became a bore… romance left… and even the expression of love became a “respectful duty” of the couple. And a struggle to make the marriage last turns into a conflict.

But wait! Hear. Conflicts can become friends and not enemies. Solving problems in a marriage requires energy, creativity, and learning to handle them constructively, and it will help you control your unnecessary anger the next time you find yourself in the middle of a disagreement with your partner.

Here are some suggestions:

1. See anger as a powerful tool for the truth.

You don’t get angry because you want to release your emotion, but it is a tool to face the problem constructively. When anger exalts you at the cost of humiliating your partner, then it destroys its purpose.

2. Have the right reason when you’re angry.

Analyze your motives when you get angry. Do you want to be in control? If you’re angry to bolster your self-esteem, you’re not helping your relationship, but if you’re angry hoping to restore your relationship, then you’re right.

3. Learn new skills in anger management.

If your partner is the one who is angry, calm down. It will not help to relate to words. And if he wants to talk about it, listen to what he says. Another way to manage anger is by procrastination. When your emotion is running high and it seems like you’re not ready to talk, find a time when you’re in a good mood to talk about it. Never leave the matter unresolved, it will become a ghost.

4. Be stylish.

Your partner is not perfect. So learn to forgive and move on. Still, love can conquer even the deepest anger.