If you want to be attractive to an amateur girl, you probably know that you need to be at least a little athletic, act cool, and be varied and interesting. Here are three tips of what to avoid when in the company of a fond baby:

1) Don’t blatantly eat cheat meals (pizza, ice cream, chicken wings, beer, etc.) in front of her when you’re watching her diet for an upcoming athletic contest. This is especially true for a female bodybuilder or figure competitor during the final weeks of her pre-contest diet. You can make light jokes and playful references to trick food from food; but being cheeky is just plain bad and will cause a lack of respect.

2) Don’t make her feel alienated. Chances are she gets enough stars (both favorable and unfavorable) from people when she just goes out in public. Whether it’s putting her on a pedestal, and lowering your own priority, or making her feel awkward and isolated, you’ll quickly lose respect for her. Once respect is gone, attraction quickly follows.

3) Don’t just focus on his muscles. Guys who have dated bodybuilders, competitors, and fitness models have appreciated her physique, but they’ve really liked something else about her. By focusing solely on her athleticism, she makes her feel like an object and not a woman. Focusing her conversations only on her physique is an almost certain attraction killer.

There are many other recommendations of what to avoid. Start with these three and they’ll help you avoid some of the easiest attraction killers with any amateur girl you like.