The first question to ask yourself before embarking on any self-defense/protection program is: are you willing to use physical violence to defend yourself? This is a yes or no question. When you find yourself in a situation that becomes physical you will not have time to think about the consequences of your actions because any hesitation on your part will result in injury to you and in a matter of seconds the matter can become a matter of life and death. It’s your choice and there are often no second chances. If you’re not prepared to make the decision to kill or be killed, then don’t go this route. But don’t trust others to protect you if you become a victim and get caught.
Unfortunately, physical violence is an unhealthy experience, sometimes it is necessary, but don’t forget that it can also have consequences later on. I mean law and mentally too. Physical violence should only be initiated when all else has failed and is the last resort. The good news is that knowledge is the key. It is not good to know the theory. If you walk in the middle of the road you will get hit by a car, so walk on the side of the road. Unless you respond to your newfound knowledge with appropriate action, then knowing becomes just as useful as not knowing. Skillful application of communication skills and a presence that avoids violence is a much better starting point, but you must also be prepared to draw on your other physical skills. Which means your best weapon is common sense, in other words always use your brain before brawn.
Looking at the many attitudes I read today, practitioners of the martial arts are beginning to seriously question what they are being taught. The question they are asking; Am I really doing self defense? More and more practitioners want to know why, how, where instead of blindly following because someone tells them to do something.
I think the problem lies in the way traditional martial arts have been viewed in the past. For example; If you live in a peaceful area and have never ventured out into the real world, then doing your art as a way to keep fit or as a sport would be fine. However, if you wanted your art for something more practical bodyguards, security, etc. So looking for a system that gives you the best possible chance of surviving in a violent situation would be a wise choice.
Although, finding one may not be easy, because many instructors are only interested in or able to teach active young students. The result, many become discouraged or disillusioned. Women, the elderly, small or weak, those same individuals who really need help do not receive it. Therefore, before or if you are thinking of switching to more street art, you should look for someone who has the following characteristics. Here are some things to check before deciding where to go.
You need to find someone who is helpful, has a positive attitude and approach to self defense, preferably one who has had real life experience, not some young man who claims he has 5 black belts but has no real experience in the guys of problems that occur. bad streets today. It’s a controversial topic, but you need to consider whether you want to learn self defense or just a watered down sport, it’s up to you, so make the decision to choose a side.
Stay safe.