While relationship advice can generally apply to a large number of men, sometimes specific advice applies only to specific men and their characteristics. Usually, when someone is looking for a long-term relationship, they go for smart people. Because? Because they tend to be more serious.
If you like a smart guy, don’t be intimidated. However, there are specific qualities that a smart guy looks for in a girl. To learn more about these, here are some tips and guides:
be spotlessly clean
Smart guys may not be as focused on appearance, but hygiene matters to them, a lot! Poor hygiene will give him the impression that you are a bum. If you can’t take care of yourself properly, how would he expect you to take care of other things?
Let kindness be innately you
Smart guys look for the right attitude more than your appearance. Being rude and making secondary comments about other people will not only show that you are arrogant or mean, but it will also show them that you are insecure. Be genuinely kind. A genuinely kind person is always irresistible.
Don’t even think about trying too hard
A smart guy will see right through you if you’re faking it. Remember that they are smart and can read more than books, they can also read your actions. Plus, smart guys aren’t really hard to please, all it takes is authenticity and you’re all covered.
Engaging in a sensitive conversation
Smart boys are challenged by smart girls. Any form of challenge that can be presented to you is welcome. They are still men and men naturally love a challenge. Have a conversation where he can get to know you and vice versa. Communication is a very important aspect of meeting any smart guy.
Don’t focus on mere flirting.
In addition to being smart, these guys also tend to be pretty decent. You won’t get them easily with just your tapping moves. Too much touching and physical contact can really drive them away.
Give her your most sincere compliments.
Boys have egos and smart boys are not spared. In fact, they may need a little more ego stroking than the usual males. They like to be praised for their brains and intellect more than they might be praised for their physical attributes.
don’t be a player
Smart guys tend to be serious about almost everything. If they feel like you’re just playing, they’ll walk away and never come back. They value your time and effort. So once he’s shown interest, make sure you stay with him and only him.