Hey man.
In the past, I used to have hundreds of girlfriends give me oral sex, and I still do. I realized that some of my friends had much worse sex lives than I did, and when I asked them, “So, did he blow you off?” the response was often, “Nope…she said she doesn’t like to suckle.” He knew it wasn’t true. I never had a problem getting my girlfriend to give me oral sex, or even just a fling, for whatever reason women were drawn to kneeling for me. They loved coming down on me. They did it with passion, with pure love and joy. Some women gave me blowjobs and had a scared, almost terrified look on their faces: they were afraid that they would screw it up and that I would end up leaving them, which sometimes I did. I didn’t have much patience.
Anyway, after a while I realized that I know something that other men don’t. I know WHY women suck and what makes them drop to their knees without ASKING THEM, let alone BEGGING THEM and looking like jerks. The fact is… if you have to ASK for oral sex, you are DEFINITELY on the wrong track to convince this girl to fuck you. If she’s having trouble convincing her current girlfriend to give her a blowjob, here are 3 things she should do, in the following order. This may sound crazy to you, but hey, whatever works!
1. Discover it
The first thing to do if you want your girlfriend to blow you is UNDERSTAND HER. First, she understands WHY she’s not giving you oral sex RIGHT NOW. Is it because your penis is FULL of hair, you never shave it, and it smells bad? If not, maybe it’s because the last time she gave you a blow job, you shoved it down her throat like crazy and made her throw up like crazy? Or, she doesn’t see why she would give you head if you never fucked her? Maybe you are behaving like THE WOMAN in your relationship, instead of THE MAN, so SHE is bossing you around, telling you what to do, how to do it, why to do it, while you run after her like a little homeless dog? Or maybe all this is not the case. Whatever it is, figure it out. You will never get your girlfriend to ENJOY giving you a blowjob if she doesn’t RESPECT you as a person and if she doesn’t see you as valuable to her.
2. Being UP
Oral sex is all about SUBMISSION. She submits to You. She goes downstairs, pleases you orally, and takes your cum with pride (or not, yet). Whatever it is, she is in a position where she submits to you, right now, you are her God. She needs to FEEL comfortable in this position and she needs to agree to submit to you sexually. Let go, and let you “carry” her in bed. The only way this can happen is if you are psychologically ABOVE her in your relationship. Basically, if you’re “the boss” in your relationship, she’ll be comfortable submitting to you and giving you a blow job. How do you do that? Make him respect you. And she learns to say “no.” You have to be prepared to lose it. Basically, she needs to love you more than you love her. If you love her more than she loves you, she will have the power in the relationship. The emotional power over you.
3. Figure it out
The third thing you need to do to get her to give you a blowjob more often is figure out WHO you are and what you WANT in life. When you are lost in space, you have no power, therefore you will not be attractive to her. Do everything you can to feel more confident about yourself. For some guys, that is having more money, freedom, a higher social status… but all of that is not as important as your ATTITUDE and your way of thinking. If you stop caring what others think of you, you’ll be more attractive and appear more carefree. When you are carefree, it communicates POWER and CONFIDENCE. This also makes you more attractive and desirable to other women. As soon as your girlfriend feels this energy in you, she will be AUTOMATICALLY ATTRACted to give you a blowjob like never before!