Who has no luggage? That’s the only question that comes to mind when I ask a girl out. Well, we all have some sort of baggage from our past. Some of us have done some embarrassing things that we’re not proud of and we definitely don’t want our lovers to be a part of it. It can be anything like this guy I know has been in relationships with ten different girls and now when he finally found his love he doesn’t want to share a picture from his past life with his girlfriend for fear of losing her. .
To put it better, this girl I knew was in jail once for a minor crime. But that doesn’t mean she’s still the same person. Surely she has to carry this to the last breath of her life.
By the time we hit 20, we’re too young to have baggage. In fact, we shouldn’t worry about our dates when we enter our 20’s. Rather I should say that our young 20’s is the time when we start to get it together for the future. But when we enter our 30s, we are full of it. We always tell our friends that if we meet a new girl or boy, he or she is cool but… To fill this in, but we have a lot of explanations, for example, she is beautiful but she had three boyfriends in the past. She is perfect, but she is a little old for me.
She is sexy, but she is not a virgin.
She’s attractive, but she has a huge butt.
Is it even possible to ignore the person’s past and enjoy the present?
Well, for one thing, it’s not impossible for sure.
Some people accept their past and move on, while others regret it forever. Like this guy I met who set a really good example when I asked him about breaking up with her, breaking up with her was the worst decision of my life and it took me three months to get over it and move on with my life, but in the end. line I realized how strong I have become emotionally over time. It’s just a learning phase where I’ve learned not to feel any difference between happiness and sadness.
This shows that you don’t care about the past, but rather enjoy the burden of it.
Now the question arises, how can we ensure that our past does not affect our present or future? Well, it is very simple but complex in many ways. The simple way is to get over it and enjoy the present life scenario without any burden from the past. Either that, or you can let your past stand in the way of your happiness. The ball is always in your court, it’s just that you need to accept and appreciate your past. By the time we start to see baggage as avoidable as other things, existence itself will be extinct just like polar bears these days.
So the trick to a happy life lies in being indifferent to all the baggage you’ve been carrying all your life. Don’t be ashamed of it, try to feel proud. It’s worth it.