Women are attracted to many things, such as money, power, fame, and the like. Many of them want a rich man, who is able to make life easy for them. Some of them want a strong man, ready to protect them from the dangers of the world.
But these desires are superficial. HAS relationship, built on those desires, never lasts long. In order to attract a woman and, more importantly, create a lasting attraction, you have to dig deeper. And the only way to do that is by developing personality traits that target her emotions, capable of hitting the deepest corners of her heart.
Let me explain the difference between looks and feelings.
Many men think that if they drive a Ferrari or own a yacht it would help them attract more attractive women. Others believe that building a lot of muscle would attract women. Well that’s wrong.
While women may be attracted to these superficial things due to lust or the hope of material gain, they are not attracted to them due to chemistry. They don’t feel attraction or affection on a deeper level, which can be achieved with only one thing: personality.
Personality is the one thing that allows you to attract her far more successfully than anything else. You don’t have to be rich or handsome to have it, it doesn’t cost anything, but it gives you more influence than any other superficial thing.
Sure, now you’re probably wondering, “When a woman sees a man driving a Ferrari and me driving a Ford Fiesta, who will she choose?” Well, most women will choose the one who can attract her on a deeper level. It takes some skills and effort to do it, you don’t have a lot of time to do it either, but it can be done.
You see, when two men try to attract a sexy woman at the same time, only one can win. And believe me, the one with the great personality almost always wins. When you are able to attract a woman with your personality, she will no longer care about Ferrari.
But what kind of personality do you need? Well, that depends. Not all types of personality traits work the same with all types of women. So in order to be able to target the right kind of woman with the right kind of personality, you will need some practice. It takes some time to get the hang of recognizing her body language, telling her what makes her tick at that particular moment, but she’ll get there after a while.
I could write an entire book on personality development, but let me point out just two traits that most women are attracted to.
Funny – Women respond to someone who can make them laugh. Being funny can bring you luck in no time, because a woman feels relaxed and positive in your presence. So she tries to memorize a couple of good jokes and use them from time to time. Just don’t go overboard, as you want her to feel comfortable, without her thinking of you as a friendly prankster.
Conceited – This is a very important trait, neglected by most men. Being arrogant gives you that special advantage over other men, because unlike them, you are not a coward, doing everything she wants. The arrogant attitude makes you more confident, therefore more desirable, as most women like confident men. When you use the arrogant attitude, don’t overdo it. Remember, being a little arrogant is good, but being too arrogant makes you a jerk, so use it wisely. Don’t worry, in time you will learn how much is enough.
So, as you can see, the personality traits that most women are attracted to are not difficult to develop. All men have them, they just need to develop those core traits to the level where they can use them on a daily basis, whenever they need to. Remember, being rich or handsome is nice, but that alone doesn’t make her attracted on a deeper level. Personality is the only thing that touches women’s hearts, so focus on its development as much as you can. Good luck!