This is tricky, because it is not easy to break a relationship anyway, be it in real life or in a sweet one. You would think that it is easy to break a sugar relationship since, by definition, it is an agreement, that is, without conditions. And that of course is understood from the beginning of the relationship.
Via email?
In general, you could say via email or text, ‘Hey, sorry honey, this fix isn’t working for me anymore so I need to break it.’ Or you could say you went back to your wife / girlfriend / boyfriend. All of the above has happened to me personally, when the SBs I was seeing at the time found another SD, or just decided to get out of the sugar life. Other times, my emails and texts were completely ignored, even when the arrangement part, as well as the sexual part of the relationship, was going very well. Ignoring is the worst way to break things, of course, as most human beings need some kind of closure, good or bad, especially if the relationship has lasted 6 months or more.
But of course, in this era of texting and Facebook it’s very easy to get into a relationship, but also break it in an instant. So the technology is great, but not in this case.
I usually like to break it up in person or on the phone, especially if it was a long-term relationship. I feel like one needs to give at least some kind of respect, even if that’s getting old-fashioned. Hmm i guess I am old fashioned…
Or in person?
And before we finish, one more thing I learned from one of my former mentors: If the relationship has lasted a long time, say 6 months or more, it makes perfect sense to break it up in person. and give SB a generous parting gift.
This way they leave as friends, and it also has the added benefit that if she’s the type to seek revenge or blackmail, this parting gift may soften her posture or make her reconsider altogether.