Let me mention a few names and you can tell me what they all have in common:
– Al Pacino
– Humphrey Bogart
That’s right … they’re all short. But you know what? They were all great with women (and not just because of their celebrity status … they were all gamers before they got famous).
In fact, the reason they attracted girls was because of their strong inner attitude.
There are a couple of things you can do in the short term. Wearing boots right now will subtly add 2-3 inches to your height.
Also, when you dress, wear vertical stripes and tight clothing. That will make you look MORE SLENDER, which will make you appear taller.
In the long term, one way that short men can be more physically dominant is to exercise. In fact, that should come first and foremost. If you have muscles, it helps A LOT, not only with your physical appearance, but also with your confidence levels, strong inner attitude and poise. So hit the gym.
When you are muscular and small, you become like a pit bull. And by the way, I’d like you to experiment with that … don’t always be a nice guy who’s polite. For the next several months, try to let your “inner badass” come out a bit when you’re with girls.
Make the statement: “I am becoming like the pit bull that can dominate larger dogs.”
Once you start to feel more and more confident in a few weeks, change your statement to “I AM like the pit bull that can dominate larger dogs.”
I’ve noticed that a lot of short guys develop a VERY strong presence by cultivating that tough interior.
Now, I’m not saying you should become an idiot … but just try to balance that good inner boy.
The next thing you need to do in the long run is QUIT any approval seeking. Who cares what women think of you? Go through life doing what you want and being who you are. (By the way, that’s so key … the guys I list above were gamers exactly because they went through life doing what they wanted and being true to who they were.)
You see, the short guys who are tough really do have a bit of an advantage. Due to their stature, they may automatically have more to do with chicks (who tend to be short themselves) than with boys who are beans. And when you add a “bad boy” element to that, the girls are soaked in attraction.
The bottom line is this: only if YOU feel uncomfortable with your height, will this affect you with girls. If you’re completely comfortable with your height, they will be too.
By the way, when it comes to tall men, what women find attractive in them is not their height. It is your domain. If you have a strong sense of inner confidence and project an absorbing personality, height will be the furthest thing from their minds.
So to sum it up, be true to yourself, take risks in life, cultivate your tough inner self, and stop worrying about anyone’s approval. And go to the gym asap. And do the fashionable things that I said.
Then you will attract girls without worrying about irrelevant things like height.