You have created a profile on a marriage site. You have looked at some of the profiles there. And you are interested in someone! You are eager to start a conversation, but at the same time nervous. Also, if you don’t take the first step, there’s a chance the two of you will never interact. How do you cross this obstacle? How do you approach your partner, a complete stranger, without looking too desperate?
This step is like walking a tightrope; it needs to be balanced. So, here is a list of tips to make that first impression, the best impression.
1. Follow the prompts in the profile – this is where you start. The few details included in the marriage profile will give you a better understanding of the type of person you might be interacting with: their attitudes, interests, and dislikes.
2. Something Shared – Talking about common interests and hobbies acts like a great icebreaker. Talking about a hobby will ensure you have something to talk about without being too personal. If the person seems a bit closed, start a small talk.
3. Keep it simple: greet the person with a “Hello” or “Hello.” Introduce yourself, a little more than what you have included in your marriage profile. You can complement them with an interesting and well-crafted profile. Be courteous in tone and don’t overdo it. It should sound genuine.
4. Try not to intimidate – What many don’t realize is that your tone sounds intimidating. You don’t want the other person to feel like you’re imposing yourself. So be sure to check that out.
5. Don’t flirt with the person – Many times, we think that calling a person “cool, sexy, or sexy” sounds modern and trendy. On the contrary, it creates a bad impression. Measure your words when you speak.
6. No personal questions – No person feels comfortable sharing personal details with a stranger, that too with a person who currently exists only virtually. Respect the person’s privacy and reserve those questions for later conversations, if you have a daily conversation.
7. Don’t rush: Approaching a partner is not about directly proposing marriage. You can suggest that if you are also interested they can get to know each other better. And, if things work out, then it might be the right time to say “I want to marry you.”
8. Be yourself: In trying to impress, it is quite natural to be a bit pretentious. You want someone to be honest with you, so do the same. Show them your true self.
9. Ask on a date: After a few conversations, and if you feel comfortable with the opposite person, you can take it to the next level by asking them out. However, make sure both of you are interested in the same thing.
10. Be positive – Don’t be discouraged if the person you are trying to contact does not respond positively. There will be many more people you can interact with.
So, use tips to tackle your match and you’ll be on the right track. Take it easy, one day at a time.